Turn off the flow

March 31st, 2006
Matt Erdmann
Matt Erdmann

Proverbs 10:19  “Don’t talk too much, for it fosters sin.  Be sensible and turn off the flow!”  NLT

Words are powerful.  The right word spoken in the right way, at the right time can brighten someone’s day, put wind in their sails, and bring them to a place of encouragement and hope.  The wrong word spoken in the wrong way, at the wrong time can blow someone’s day, deflate them, and move them to a place of despair and difficulty.

I like this verse and I like the New Living Translation version, that communicates the thought so practically.  Watch what you say, don’t say more than you need to, watch out for gossip (my interpretation), and don’t let what you say to someone be in anyway sinful.  Use words that build up, encourage, edify, and help, rather than hurt and hinder relationship.  The verse so clearly communicates what needs to be done.  Be sensible.  Think before you speak.  Is what I am going to say, True, Helpful, Important, Necessary, and Kind?  If it’s not, then maybe I just need to turn off the flow and rather than “yack” with someone about something or someone else, maybe I should just bring whatever it is before the Lord.  Chances are…  He’s got the best perspective anyway, knows what I’m thinking, and can help me with whatever it is I’m dealing with.

Lord, I can be prone to let my tongue “wag.”  Help me Lord to keep my words in check, watch what I say, speak with wisdom and discerment and talk about things that are glorifying to you, rather than things that will lead me down roads of sinfulness.  Jesus please give me the ability to be sensible and may that sensibility come from your Holy Spirit.

 

3 Responses to “Turn off the flow”

  1. Richard L Says:

    Dear Matt,

    I totally agree with you! I love to give advise or counsel to people, but I learned that I don’t have to say anything at times to leave some space for God to work through other people at the right timing. If I talk too much, I am not leaving God a single space to work. It will be MY WORK. That will be horrible. Thank’s for your insight and Praise God for this website!

    I hope everyone at First Baptist who are weak in this area like me will read Matt’s insight.

    In Him,

    Richard Li

  2. Leslie Says:

    Matt, Thank you so much for your insight. I can say that this very week I have been seeking the Lord about this very thing…when to speak up…less times than I think. The Lord has used you in your faithfulness to speak the truth to my heart through his word. A direct answer to prayer. I pray for discernment in this area.

  3. Matt Erdmann Says:

    Hey Richard:

    Thanks for your thoughts. Leaving room for God to work. I think that is a really insightful statement. So often I don’t leave any room and try to do everything in my own power. How ridiculous is that?

    Take care,

    Matt

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